Your prayers have been so important to us, and we are thankful for all the love and support!!
Sofi will see all of this someday, so thank you truly for the evidence of love that can transcend the trauma that comes with an adoption story.
It seems like an important time for an update, because Sofi is 5 1/2 and starting Kindergarten.
We have prayed for Sofi (unknowing at the time) since her conception, and finally joined as a family when she turned 3. The LORD's providence and miracles have been beyond anything we could dream up. He has blessed us with some backstory through her caregivers and paperwork that reveal miracles connected to our prayers.
Every adoption story is unique and special. Our family chose adoption very intentionally - for the sake of Sofi and the work of love God could bring to her life through family; and also for the work of transformation we desired in choosing to trust the LORD in this journey.
I have seen God's love work miracles in Sofi, and He has truly transformed - and continues to transform us - as we walk with Him in faith.
Completing the adoption process is huge, but adoption finally begins when the family is together. That's where more miracles are needed in the healing, growing, and bonding.
God has proven so faithful, and Sofi has overcome so many things physically due to delays from her repaired cleft palate and status of "failure to thrive". It's amazing, and l love when I get the chance to speak of those transformations. M.I.R.A.C.L.E.S.
So now, we have entered the very important and exciting time of Kindergarten.
Sofi has blossomed in all ways; displaying many talents, strong intelligence, lots of sweet - mixed with a touch of spicy. She is precious and becoming bolder.
We have always prayed forward to Kindergarten. It's such a huge milestone for all kids, and we knew there would be extra things to consider for Sofi.
There's no easy way to explain all the considerations and unknowns parents and children face in adoption/foster care situations. It comes from a place of brokenness and trauma. There's no way around that. There are physical and emotional things that can arise at anytime. For some kids, there is a steady struggle; some face more of a roller coaster; others have things that surface randomly.
It's a journey that has to be wrapped in prayer and love.
Sofi definitely has some extra challenges as she enters Kindergarten. Speech and language are the most obvious and physical, but there are other bonding and emotional things as well.
Many of you know, that we have actually made another huge decision for our family at this time. We have prayed extensively about what will be best for Sofi and our whole family. There are so many factors with 4 kids and careers. We couldn't even come close to deciding what would be best logistically. We literally prayed that God would just show us which way, fully trusting that He would help us with the details after we obeyed.
We have stepped out in faith in choosing to home school for Kindergarten.
I resigned from my teaching position, so I can teach Sofi and Luke as they enter Kindergarten.
Drew and Kate want to continue at MCMS and MCES (8th grade and 5th grade).
Kevin will still be teaching at MCHS.
We are super excited about this adventure. We are trusting God to help us figure it all out. We will have to make a lot of changes obviously, but He will guide and provide.
One of the many beautiful blessings God has worked in our family is the special bond of Luke and Sofi. They are only 6 months apart and best friends. They are starting Kindergarten together, and that just makes it so perfect.
We do ask that you pray for Sofi.
We know this decision is going to allow her more time, and one-on-one. It will be an extreme blessing for bonding and growing as a family. We believe it's the kind of stability she needs right now.
Please pray that I can provide what she needs as a mom and teacher - and also for Drew, Kate, and Luke. (The same as all moms feel.)
It's hard to explain all that has gone into this decision, but we do appreciate your continued prayers and support.
God has proven faithful over and over! His love for children is always easy to find, and I trust in His providence and provision for all 4 of mine.
Introducing - SONSHINE ELEMENTARY
